How To Escape From the Friend Zone

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How To Get Out of the Friend Zone

It is the most frustrating, heartbreaking, and all-out maddening love story ever: Person A meets Person B, A likes B, B just wants to be friends, A waits for that to change…and waits, and waits, and ultimately nothing changes. While many people think that only men get put in the friend zone, this story can happen to people of all genders in any combination. It’s still the friend zone, and it still hurts!

No matter who you are, being head-over-heels in love with someone who only sees you as a friend is very difficult, and it is one of the most common things that people seek readings on. Most of the time, the best way to get out of the friend zone is to realize that there are multiple types of friend zone and find out which one you’re actually in. So, how can you tell? First of all, a good reading never hurts! However, some research and self-reflection are also important if you want to get out of the friend zone.

Here are some friend zones to watch out for, and the angels’ tips for getting out of them!

“Right Person, Wrong Time!”

This is, bar none, the most common friend zone problem that comes up in readings. Person A meets Person B, A falls in love, B thinks A is amazing but…B is too busy with work, school, or a major life transition, and they’re going nowhere fast. This is really frustrating, but the good news is that it is almost always extremely simple to get out of the friend zone if this is your problem.

Sometimes, the guides say, people are brought into their soulmates’ lives a bit before the relationship is meant to occur. Remember that soulmates are also meant to be best friends spiritually. Sometimes, the person that you love may have manifested you into their life to help and support them unconditionally while they work through a major struggle. All you have to do to get out of the friend zone now is be there for the one you love, and be patient while they learn whatever lesson they need to.

“What?! You Like Me?”

It’s surprisingly common for psychics to talk to someone who is desperately in love with a person who they absolutely cannot imagine loving them back. Yet when the guides are consulted, it turns out that the person in question does in fact love their admirer back. However, they are totally unaware that the attraction is mutual. When you have two people in love who both believe that the other will never return their affections, nothing can happen.

In this situation, the guides say that someone has to be brave and explicitly ask for that date. Don’t say: “Would you like to hang out?” Instead say: “I want to go on a date with you.” Remember, to get out of the friend zone, you want a real date, not something that they could mistake for a platonic hangout. It might be scary, but your angels will be more than happy to give you the encouragement and support you need to make the first move and get out of the friend zone!

“I Don’t Want To Ruin Our Friendship”

Here’s the big one, the one that most people are most afraid of. No one wants to wreck a good friendship. Let’s face it: not all couples are meant to last a lifetime, and it can be very difficult to stay friends after a relationship ends. Thankfully, the angels assure that this is almost never an issue for a true soulmate connection.

To get out of the friend zone, all you have to do is wait and see where things go. If that eternal love connection is there, the guides will help bring that connection closer at the right time. If you’re not soulmates, they will help you close that attraction off so you can just enjoy your friendship. Either way, a solid friendship is never actually a roadblock to true love!

Can You Always Get Out of the Friend Zone?

Remember that you shouldn’t take being in the “friend zone” as an insult, nor should you keep pushing if you receive a no. If they want to be your friend, that means that your company and presence in their life is something they value, and that should always be flattering. And while being patient and making the first move can help you turn friendship into romance, if they reject you, the Universe may just be protecting you from a bad match, and you don’t help your case by persisting intensely.

That said, the friend zone does not automatically mean death for a potential relationship! If you listen to your hearts and guides, you will see the best path to your true love relationship, and one way or another, you’ll find your escape from the friend zone, whether it be with your current crush or someone else.


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5 thoughts on “How To Escape From the Friend Zone

  1. Charles

    Yes I fall In # 1well have be separate for a year she says we are friends. We was togather for a21 years. I still love her. & don’t know what to do I’m 54 and still holding on help me please

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  2. Chuck

    Yep I fall into category # 1, we met about five years ago, started hanging out going on four years ago, both of us in relationships. My wife passed away two years ago she’s got six kids and is busy all the time. She won’t say she loves me cause she feels it would be cheating and won’t go any further to her feelings as long as she’s still with her boyfriend, they have kids together and it makes it hard to leave him because of the kids. For me I understand although it is still frustrating and we argue about it all the time. She has stuck with me and I with her going on 4 years. We haven’t done anything but kiss and hold one another but I want to move on. I’m not getting any younger and want to be happy with her if at all possible I’d like to give us a chance. I do understand her side because she has been divorced with kids involved and she has seen what it’s done to them. She is my best friend other than that and non of her family nor boyfriend want me around her but she wants me around all the time so I am there for her. It’s very complicated and I’ve told her I don’t want to find someone new, she is my soul mate even tho there is a large age difference it doesn’t seem to matter to neither of us.

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  3. Gina Rose ext.9500Gina Rose ext.9500

    Nice article, Regina !

    I find that many of my clients fall within zone #1.

    The rest are divided up between the other two zones.

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